Debby Says

Cat writes:

Hello Debby! I like the new site. It’s my first time to write, but I’m wanting to know what is the best thing to do about my boyfriend who is starting to pressure me for sex. I REALLY like him a lot, and don’t want to lose him, but I’ve never had sex before, and it’s kind of scary to think about getting pregnant or diseases or anything. Maybe you have some good advice?

Cat

Hey Cat,
thanks for your message! Well.. if he is pressing you that much, it´d be a terrible experience to do it just to please him! you have to be 100% sure. If he loves you and respects you, you both may go together somewhere where you can get information about birth control and diseases: If he doesnt want to, and u still dont feel ready, forget it, there are plenty of guys left in the world… and it´s a very good thing you care about your sexual life… congratz and Good luck!!

Deb