SHY GUY… HOW TO GET THE DATE…??
Ok, ok, having the date itself is a good thing… But the hardest thing for sure is how to get it!!
Here comes the most amazing girl and you’re kind of tired of being just another friend!
All the guys say she’s hot… well… she is!
She hangs around with her girl-friends up and down and you can never get a moment alone with her!
It might be that you’re too ugly for her… Or maybe this is what you think!
So gentlemen, Here I got a deal for you: Try to ask her out… getting over those challenges.. and not remain so alone!!
First fact: Girls keep on telling their whole lives to her friends, so… Even if you don’t like her mean best friend or her gossipy second best friend.. They have to have a good impression of you. This is important cause they will always tell her their point of view… especially about you. Be friends and find something in common – C`mon, there must be something!
Second fact: Being a good flirter doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be chasing her and annoying her day and night. It just means that you care about her, about what she says and about her feelings. Also, make her laugh, because she can find all that in a good friend, but the deal is to make her like you, right? Be yourself!
Third Fact: You can not jump straight into a dating before being friends- not if you’re serious! – So get to know her, show little details.., like bringing her some small things she comments you she likes (a CD, her favourite chocolate or replace her broken favourite ruler). You’ll become someone who exists in her life.. Make yourself become more special!
Fouth Fact: Ok, time to go straight into the point! Flirt BAD, Make her Like you, Get CLOSER, kiss her! who knows! It could take as many dates as needed, but it`s up to you. BE sure you don’t call her the same day you are planning to take her out. (she might have plans!!) Here is the way you should go.. Hey.. [Girl]! How are you?… yes, it’s freaking cold (hot) in here! What plans for tonight? Wanna watch a movie?… If for any reason the answer is NO, don’t surrender!.. It’s ok [Girl] When do you have a free time? You sick? Want me to go rent a movie and watch it in your house?
Difficult? Yeah… Here we go.. take this into consideration… Good suitors are always patient. So if you want something serious and this girl’s is definitely worth it, take it easy… and work on it!
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