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	<title>Comments on: Teenage Moms&#8230; a child to raise.. or to play with?</title>
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		<title>by: Dicacio</title>
		<link>http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/10/01/teenage-moms-a-child-to-raise-or-to-play-with/#comment-17</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Oct 2006 08:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>This topic will go on for infinity, or until the world ends And, by the looks of it the planet is falling apart  at the seams each year that eradicates its foundations; just getting more violent and intensive with its natural disasters. Hmmm...I wonder why.

Debby, the main question is, what will God himself want for you? Unless we are agnostics--But more are not then are. So its a fair question to ask yourself when you don't have anyone to turn to for help, I suppose.

I am a single father and let me tell you now, having a child from your own flesh and blood is the most Beautiful "gift "beyond comprehension, nomatter what the environment and surroudings are! Wait till you have your first baby. Omg. It will make you see Angels sliding down Rainbows-- let me emphasis it nice and Prolific.

I think "Life" must continue nomatter what, because God himself said, "Be fruitful and multiply". He didn't say say, " Be indignant and subtract".

I am not an Agnostic, so I favor Life instead of Death, becuase technically speaking :Abortion: is not Life, nor will it ever be. Therfore, the beginning of wisdom is to fear God himself, by respecting his voice.


What a teenaged pregnancy will become is up to that individual's own soul. I pray that life is more meaningful than a night out in the dark red nightclubs. That lifesytle gets so old pretty fast, but a child's life continues to give you happiness forever. I don't party like I use to, but my daughter is so Beautiful and glorious. I'm glad she came into the world! hahaha

So the main reasoning for each Teen that gets pregnant too soon and young is: What's so hard about letting life be as it is? and just have the baby inside you come out to see how beautiful Mommy really is, inside and outside. Isn't that better than fearing life and trying to escape its natural course?

Now I'm not saying "Rape" is a natural course either. Because that is the main target when discussing Abortion issues. It never fails to protrude from the masses in "Live "debates-- publicly, or in private situations.

But you're absolutely right! You don't have to give a sermon to see that life is better than death! I'm glad my Mother didn't "Abort" any of her 12 children! lol! Let me tell you now...Want a lesson on the beauty of Motherhood?? Talk to my Mother Josephine, and she'll make you fall on your gorgeous knees and beg God himself to give you the same inspiring wisdom she has.

"Chronic-Drama" comes in all aspects in life, Debs. Abortion, is just a terrible wreckless debate to get into. There will never be a compromise. Only God himself has the wisdom to slove it. I am no messiah, that I know.

Life is what you make it, Debs.... Life is what you make it. So we can only share the "Beauty of Life, while others choose to support the "Benefits of Abortion. That is the TRUE difference between the two in plain simplistic terms. Call them analogies it you will, but they are right there in the open now.

Its the "Inability" to make the "Right Decisions" that keeps a teenager trapped in their own foolishness. And its the "Ability" to make the "Right Decisions" that keep a teenager in a somewhat perfect harmony with their own adolescence. Problems come in all forms And, how they cope with each one will be their own making, knowingly or unknowningly.

But there are multitudes of twist and turns in life. Abortion? Its  just another twist of death-- I mean, let the truth be told.

Sure it gives the Feedom back to the Could-be-MOTHER but that last second decision haunts
them for the rest of their natural lives. So is it really Freedom? Hell No...
I've seen it in the eyes of the beholder, and it is such a sad thing to look at when the memories come out to taunt them.

You are very intelligent Debs. I can tell sweetie. Goodnight and Buon Giorno to you always....

Hugs to you Debs, --- love Dicacio</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This topic will go on for infinity, or until the world ends And, by the looks of it the planet is falling apart  at the seams each year that eradicates its foundations; just getting more violent and intensive with its natural disasters. Hmmm&#8230;I wonder why.</p>
<p>Debby, the main question is, what will God himself want for you? Unless we are agnostics&#8211;But more are not then are. So its a fair question to ask yourself when you don&#8217;t have anyone to turn to for help, I suppose.</p>
<p>I am a single father and let me tell you now, having a child from your own flesh and blood is the most Beautiful &#8220;gift &#8220;beyond comprehension, nomatter what the environment and surroudings are! Wait till you have your first baby. Omg. It will make you see Angels sliding down Rainbows&#8211; let me emphasis it nice and Prolific.</p>
<p>I think &#8220;Life&#8221; must continue nomatter what, because God himself said, &#8220;Be fruitful and multiply&#8221;. He didn&#8217;t say say, &#8221; Be indignant and subtract&#8221;.</p>
<p>I am not an Agnostic, so I favor Life instead of Death, becuase technically speaking :Abortion: is not Life, nor will it ever be. Therfore, the beginning of wisdom is to fear God himself, by respecting his voice.</p>
<p>What a teenaged pregnancy will become is up to that individual&#8217;s own soul. I pray that life is more meaningful than a night out in the dark red nightclubs. That lifesytle gets so old pretty fast, but a child&#8217;s life continues to give you happiness forever. I don&#8217;t party like I use to, but my daughter is so Beautiful and glorious. I&#8217;m glad she came into the world! hahaha</p>
<p>So the main reasoning for each Teen that gets pregnant too soon and young is: What&#8217;s so hard about letting life be as it is? and just have the baby inside you come out to see how beautiful Mommy really is, inside and outside. Isn&#8217;t that better than fearing life and trying to escape its natural course?</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m not saying &#8220;Rape&#8221; is a natural course either. Because that is the main target when discussing Abortion issues. It never fails to protrude from the masses in &#8220;Live &#8220;debates&#8211; publicly, or in private situations.</p>
<p>But you&#8217;re absolutely right! You don&#8217;t have to give a sermon to see that life is better than death! I&#8217;m glad my Mother didn&#8217;t &#8220;Abort&#8221; any of her 12 children! lol! Let me tell you now&#8230;Want a lesson on the beauty of Motherhood?? Talk to my Mother Josephine, and she&#8217;ll make you fall on your gorgeous knees and beg God himself to give you the same inspiring wisdom she has.</p>
<p>&#8220;Chronic-Drama&#8221; comes in all aspects in life, Debs. Abortion, is just a terrible wreckless debate to get into. There will never be a compromise. Only God himself has the wisdom to slove it. I am no messiah, that I know.</p>
<p>Life is what you make it, Debs&#8230;. Life is what you make it. So we can only share the &#8220;Beauty of Life, while others choose to support the &#8220;Benefits of Abortion. That is the TRUE difference between the two in plain simplistic terms. Call them analogies it you will, but they are right there in the open now.</p>
<p>Its the &#8220;Inability&#8221; to make the &#8220;Right Decisions&#8221; that keeps a teenager trapped in their own foolishness. And its the &#8220;Ability&#8221; to make the &#8220;Right Decisions&#8221; that keep a teenager in a somewhat perfect harmony with their own adolescence. Problems come in all forms And, how they cope with each one will be their own making, knowingly or unknowningly.</p>
<p>But there are multitudes of twist and turns in life. Abortion? Its  just another twist of death&#8211; I mean, let the truth be told.</p>
<p>Sure it gives the Feedom back to the Could-be-MOTHER but that last second decision haunts<br />
them for the rest of their natural lives. So is it really Freedom? Hell No&#8230;<br />
I&#8217;ve seen it in the eyes of the beholder, and it is such a sad thing to look at when the memories come out to taunt them.</p>
<p>You are very intelligent Debs. I can tell sweetie. Goodnight and Buon Giorno to you always&#8230;.</p>
<p>Hugs to you Debs, &#8212; love Dicacio
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		<title>by: Angie</title>
		<link>http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/10/01/teenage-moms-a-child-to-raise-or-to-play-with/#comment-16</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Oct 2006 13:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I have to agree! It's a tough choice to make, but when I got pregnant earlier this year I decided the best thing was to stop the pregnancy.  I am still in school, and even relationships that seem great could end... and it seems like at this age we are changing so fast that it's easier to grow apart from someone... and then I'd be left to to raise it by myself, with not much money.  I knew I could not provide a great life for any new baby, and I'm very happy with my decision to wait for a better time.  I have a friend who did try to do it on her own, but now she finds it much hard to get another SERIOUS boyfriend, since she already has a kid!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to agree! It&#8217;s a tough choice to make, but when I got pregnant earlier this year I decided the best thing was to stop the pregnancy.  I am still in school, and even relationships that seem great could end&#8230; and it seems like at this age we are changing so fast that it&#8217;s easier to grow apart from someone&#8230; and then I&#8217;d be left to to raise it by myself, with not much money.  I knew I could not provide a great life for any new baby, and I&#8217;m very happy with my decision to wait for a better time.  I have a friend who did try to do it on her own, but now she finds it much hard to get another SERIOUS boyfriend, since she already has a kid!
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