Comments on: Unfaithful Women http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/ One Teen's Look At Love, Sex, Dating, and Relationships. Fri, 10 Sep 2010 22:54:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.4 by: D.L. of Oregon http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-42 Sun, 18 Feb 2007 22:10:51 +0000 http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-42 The reason a girl cheats, primarily, is control. If she isn't getting the attention or some other part of the relationship seems unequal, she will seek out other flirtations that soon turn into getting laid. She has the control in that relationship, usually because she can call it off due to her BF/Fiance/husband will find out, etc and use the fact when the time comes to exert said control. There is more to it than that but that is basic reason for women fooling around, while some it is not happy, wants out, hot pants, or wasn't the faithful type anyway. The reason a girl cheats, primarily, is control. If she isn’t getting the attention or some other part of the relationship seems unequal, she will seek out other flirtations that soon turn into getting laid. She has the control in that relationship, usually because she can call it off due to her BF/Fiance/husband will find out, etc and use the fact when the time comes to exert said control. There is more to it than that but that is basic reason for women fooling around, while some it is not happy, wants out, hot pants, or wasn’t the faithful type anyway.

]]> by: DebbySays http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-9 Fri, 15 Sep 2006 10:21:16 +0000 http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-9 If you want my opinion... Cheaters suck!! The reason doesn`t really matter- a wild party, lack of attention, etc! All i know is this: if person cheats on you, he/she will do it again. Think about this guys. If you want my opinion… Cheaters suck!! The reason doesn`t really matter- a wild party, lack of attention, etc! All i know is this: if person cheats on you, he/she will do it again. Think about this guys.

]]> by: jeff http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-8 Fri, 15 Sep 2006 10:17:19 +0000 http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-8 dicacio, i am not sure that is totally true. i have dated a couple girls recently who cheated on me. of course, i dumped them right away, but i also did talk to them about it. both of them had told me they hadn’t cheated on guys before and so i wanted to know WHY ME?! it turns out both of them had the same answer! it was because i was “too busy”. which, i guess is true!? each girl said i was working a lot and then studying, doing things with my guy-friends, watching tv, etc. and they felt let out… bored, and lonely… even though i WAS also doing things with them. i thought it was enough! i want to do my own things too, but they wanted even MORE time! one of them said it made her feel unloved, and so that is why she was drawn to the arms of another guy… who made her laugh, and took time for her. she said she still loved me and wanted to be with ME, but just was overcome by the feeling of wanting to feel loved in that moment. of course, i dumped her anyway. you ARE right… once a cheater, always a cheater, but i think maybe it was ME… something i did… that sent her down that path… not that she was a slut to start with. you’re also right about diseases! i don’t want to be with anyone who’s going to go off fucking other people. who KNOWS what she might be bringing back to me! you can’t be too careful ! dicacio, i am not sure that is totally true. i have dated a couple girls recently who cheated on me. of course, i dumped them right away, but i also did talk to them about it.

both of them had told me they hadn’t cheated on guys before and so i wanted to know WHY ME?!

it turns out both of them had the same answer! it was because i was “too busy”. which, i guess is true!? each girl said i was working a lot and then studying, doing things with my guy-friends, watching tv, etc. and they felt let out… bored, and lonely… even though i WAS also doing things with them. i thought it was enough! i want to do my own things too, but they wanted even MORE time! one of them said it made her feel unloved, and so that is why she was drawn to the arms of another guy… who made her laugh, and took time for her.

she said she still loved me and wanted to be with ME, but just was overcome by the feeling of wanting to feel loved in that moment. of course, i dumped her anyway. you ARE right… once a cheater, always a cheater, but i think maybe it was ME… something i did… that sent her down that path… not that she was a slut to start with.

you’re also right about diseases! i don’t want to be with anyone who’s going to go off fucking other people. who KNOWS what she might be bringing back to me! you can’t be too careful !

]]> by: dicacio http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-5 Fri, 15 Sep 2006 10:00:01 +0000 http://www.cyberclub.com/DebbySays/2006/09/15/unfaithful-women/#comment-5 the true fact why chicks cheat on anyone is, because they're sluts. the excuses to back-up the sluttiness are just that...excuses. once a cheater, always a cheater! guys arent this stupid to accept the reasoning behind the "bang bang bang"... either stay a slut or learn the hard way...AIDS! now after the little sassy sluts get Aids, then they might not think its so "fcuken good" to hit it behind their guys (or girls) back. i had to go there bcuz' the gayness these days is worldwide..hahaha the true fact why chicks cheat on anyone is, because they’re sluts. the excuses to back-up the sluttiness are just that…excuses. once a cheater, always a cheater!

guys arent this stupid to accept the reasoning behind the “bang bang bang”… either stay a slut or learn the hard way…AIDS! now after the little sassy sluts get Aids, then they might not think its so “fcuken good” to hit it behind their guys (or girls) back. i had to go there bcuz’ the gayness these days is worldwide..hahaha

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