The Perfect Date
Ok, these few lines are dedicated to all you silly guys who don’t know what to do, what to say, how to behave, etc, in the first date with the girl you like! Yes, the prettiest of them all! The one that has all you want!! Carlo, you inspired me…
First of all : BE A GENTLEMAN!! We care about little details like.. Open the door of the car, move the chair for us to sit, etc. It is VERY important!!
Second: When you take her there, mall, park, whatever, NEVER, absolutely NEVER guys, ask: What do you want to do? Always offer some options: Wanna watch a movie, have an ice-cream? Or maybe the ice-cream after the movie? Oh yeah- smile a lot.
Third: Never put a face of Pain when you see the bill. Keep on smiling…
Fouth: This might be the most important part of the date: We LOVE fancy jewelery or that stuff to hang on our ears, neck and wrists… (doesn’t need to be real of course). Take her there. Ask her to try on something you like. Ask her if she likes it… (If not, ask her to choose one) and… there you go: “This is for you”. I warranty you guys, this never fails. Even if the date was boring so far, this will be the most fun part. And also, this is a great way the girl remembers you everyday by looking at it!
This will work, believe in me!! When you take her home pay a special attention on the way she says Thanks… You have to get the sweetest Thanks! And now, if you did not succed at all…
Fifth: It`s ok, you can give up on her, or you can try harder!! If the chance is high she doesn’t like you in that way and wants to be friends only, then keep on being friends, maybe she will appreciate that more than your other intentions.. And also, she doesn`t get hurt by thinking you were nice only to flirt!!!
see also:advice date first date romance
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well, to be fair with your advice i will add that i dont have problems on dates..never. but to my knowledge a lot of girls dont like the presistent door opening courtesy treatment. today, woman are genuinely independent, and therefore, they’ll actually tell a guy from the start.
yes, some girls like the guy to do all the planning, so they aren’t blamed for the suckie consequences of making suckie decisions. so i think thats why you went there.
i felt that you were advocating for THE FEMALES when you suggested that US guys buy gifts right off the bat!
that, Debby, is not good advice.
the reason is that a GUY should leave room and space in a GIRLS mind that there is MORE to CUM if she is a GOOD DATE NUMBER ONE. a guy knows this is true… ALways wait until you know for a FACT that your gifts WILL infact return to you AS GREAT SEX! bcuz, nomatter what…SEX is the BOTTOMLINE! and im not sayin implying that sex is for date number ONE. but the SEEDS of IT is the motive.
i dont care who you ask on this PLANETA.. ALL dates lead to sex. SO it is UNWISE to buy the chick “flashy gifts” on a FIRST date…WHY? bcuz she will ASSUME its REPRESENTING a SEXUAL form of mental FOREPLAY…and THAT might kill it for the GUY’S chance to impress the GIRL with just a SIMPLE BASIC DATE. not TOO MUch is BEST.
guys HAVE TO leave a GIRL TO WONDER AND IMAGINE MORE> MORE> MORE> and More. period. now THAT IS POWER! and woman, ladies, girls, chicks, sluts and hos..all LOVE POWER!
i like how You try to make it seem that materialistic offerings will ensure a “deal-sealer”…well, maybe for a naive type of girl with little exp., dating older guys or guys her age or younger! but my point is that guys dont like “materialistic” chicks…
…why? bcuz’ high maintenance girls are usually selfish and overly sassy with shitty attitudes to go with their hot sexi lip-gloss. lmao
but lets say a guy actually takes NOTES from your wisdom of youth. he picks da girl up. gets to the movie theatre and then doesnt ask the chick what moive she wants to see and just buys 2 tickets to see, ” blueballs part3″…
..DAMN WHAT A VISUAL THAT IS, huh? funny yet, DAMNZ!
i think some of your implications are misleading, bcuz’girls LOVE TO BE INCONTROL…well at least the woman ive dated DO. we cant make ALL the decisions.
thats unatural and it defeats the PURPOSE of goin on a DATE WITH ANOTHER PERSON. am i right?
u didnt mention SEX? sometimes it happens on a first dates.TRUST ME. girls are hornier than guys, bcuz they have MORE ORGASAMS than Us. HAHAHAHA so talk about SEX too when talkin about, DATING”.
THE FREIND TAG:
1.she doesnt look into your eyes with that, “i want u look”
2. she looks uninterested when u try to flirt.
3. she mentions EX boyfriends throughout da date
4. she answers her cell phone while your tryin to MACK.
5. you open any door for her, but she refuses to go first.
6. you go on date number 1, 2,and 3 without a frenchkiss.
7. she turns her head hard-left when u try to kiss her.
8. she looks at her watch and keeps rushing the date.
9. she answers your Q’s with..: huh huh..umm uh, uh what?
10. she frequently says, ” ooh, i dont care..whatever”
I LOVE YOU DEBBY>> WILL YOU GO ON A dATE WITH ME?
ciao arrevederci
Dicacio mwa! xxx
September 15th, 2006 | #
Dear Dicacio,
Thank you very much for your point of view, I love it! but, to my criteria, there are still girls left like me who doesn`t have sex on the first dates…. Take care!!
September 15th, 2006 | #