Pressure
Cat writes:
Hello Debby! I like the new site. It’s my first time to write, but I’m wanting to know what is the best thing to do about my boyfriend who is starting to pressure me for sex. I REALLY like him a lot, and don’t want to lose him, but I’ve never had sex before, and it’s kind of scary to think about getting pregnant or diseases or anything. Maybe you have some good advice?
Cat
Hey Cat,
thanks for your message! Well.. if he is pressing you that much, it´d be a terrible experience to do it just to please him! you have to be 100% sure. If he loves you and respects you, you both may go together somewhere where you can get information about birth control and diseases: If he doesnt want to, and u still dont feel ready, forget it, there are plenty of guys left in the world… and it´s a very good thing you care about your sexual life… congratz and Good luck!!
Deb
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Well, we HAVE been going out for about 6 months now, and I guess I do want to have sex,
but I’m just finding it pretty scary to think about all the bad things that COULD happen!!
I mean… I’m gonna have to do it SOME time, right?
How can I help myself to make that final step? And also.. What are some thngs YOU did
before your first time? Anything?
CatGirl
September 15th, 2006 | #
Hey Cat, don`t be so concerned about it, don`t “try” to help yourself, if the right moment comes things will happen naturally, and that`s the real way you will enjoy it. First time is special so that lucky boy you`re dating should be worth it. My first time? I wish i had an elder sis to gimme a piece of advice, or that there was a page like this, I was as scared as you! But again, I didn`t prepare myself, I let things happen and it went good. Many bad things could happen Cat, besides diseases, Talk to him, you have to receive a lot of information before it`s too late!!
September 15th, 2006 | #