Debby Says

When I went home for my 2 week vacation form the combat zone in Iraq, I ended up sleeping with my ex.
She insisted on spending time with me when I was home, and I hung out with her for a few days and one night it happend and she seemed to be the one that wanted it so bad, and I didnt think It would cause her to believe I wanted a new relatoinship with her. Now she thinks I used her for sex when I was home and what ever friendship we had is destroyed.
I surely did not mean for that to happen.

Hey Mike I am sorry to hear that. First thing; the biggest mistake here was yours, you should have not let that happen if you didn´t mean to use her. I tell you this, girls are very emotinal, we have a much stronger illusion about boys, specially after sex!! it means to us kind of a.. promise. I know it was not your intention, but your friendship might not get lost if you talk to her sincerely… and please, if you don´t want to give her fake signals of a new relationship, try not to hang out with her that much, i know its a bit annoying… hopefully your combat time will not last very long and you are going to make a new life and meet new ppl so be positive. Good luck!!