Debby Says

Is it possible for a woman to be in a relationship and not be emotionally involved? I have dated girls who when I say I’m not looking for anything serious (a cowardly way of saying I would not like them to be my girlfriend), have said they would still like to maintain the physical aspect of the relationship.

Can I believe they are not becoming attached and thus pained by my lack of committment?

Hey DTR
They can be very open minded, but this may mean that They are the ones who don´t want to get in a serious relationship! I know many Girls who do this thing… just to keep on having phisical affection in long periods of lack of relationships… BUT, some of them Might keep on dating you because they might think it´d be a way to make you like them more and be more interested in them (i have met a couple of cases, but i still think it is a very bad idea.. not proper of an intelligent girl)… The thing here is, in the first case, they are open mind (you can find plenty of them everywhere, so don´t be surprised) the second is a case of very low self-esteem. Be aware!